Reflections on Mental Health, Relationships, and Change
This space is for thoughtful reflections on mental health, relationships, and the many transitions that shape our lives.
You will find writing intended to help you better understand patterns like anxiety, self-criticism, burnout, and relationship stress and to offer perspective, clarity, and gentle tools along the way.
If you are not sure where to start, the topics below may help guide you.
Anxiety & Perfectionism
Learn practical strategies for managing anxiety, quieting self-criticism, and breaking free from perfectionism so you can feel more grounded and confident.
Burnout & Overwhelm
Understand why burnout happens, recognize the warning signs, and discover practical ways to reduce stress, restore your energy, and create a more sustainable pace.
Relationships & Boundaries
Explore healthier ways to communicate, set boundaries, and overcome people-pleasing so you can build stronger, more fulfilling relationships.
Discover evidence-based tools to build emotional resilience, practice self-compassion, and support your mental well-being in everyday life.
Life Transitions
Navigate life's seasons of change with greater clarity, resilience, and self-understanding, whether you're facing a new beginning or an unexpected challenge.
How to Prioritize Yourself Without Guilt (Even If It Feels Wrong)
If you feel guilty every time you try to set a boundary or take a break, you’re not alone and you're not selfish. In this post, I share the truth about prioritizing yourself (without the guilt) and a free guide to help you start making space for your own needs, one small shift at a time.
Stress Management, Boundaries and Mindfulness: My Conversation on the Phyzix Podcast
I share stress management tools, boundary-setting tips, and mindfulness strategies on the Phyzix Podcast.
Can’t Stay Consistent with Exercise? Here’s What Might Be Going On
Explore how consistent exercise supports mental health and get practical tips to build a sustainable movement routine that works for you.
Featured in Bold Journey: My Story, My Why, and What Keeps Me Going
I share my story, values, and insights on perfectionism and healing in my Bold Journey feature interview.
Practice, Practice, Practice: Why Coping Strategies Matter Most Before Stress Hits
Coping strategies work best when practiced before stress hits. Learn how to train your nervous system daily for greater calm, resilience, and clarity.
Stop Shoulding on Yourself: 3 Ways to Live the Life You Want
Learn how to stop living by 'shoulds' and start living a life aligned with your values. Discover three actionable strategies—mindfulness, self-compassion, and values-based action—to reduce guilt, shame, and negative self-talk, helping you live a more balanced and fulfilling life.
What is a Holistic Approach to Mental Health?
As a clinical social worker, I've seen the profound impact of integrating various aspects of well-being into mental health treatment. From talk therapy and nutrition to sleep and alternative therapies like Reiki and Yoga, a holistic approach addresses the whole person. Read the full article to learn more about empowering your mental health through a holistic approach.
Exercise and Mental Health: A Therapist's Insight on Movement and Well-Being
If you Google “exercise and mental health”, you will get 1,780,000,000 results, so clearly there is no shortage of articles and research on this topic. What I would like to share in this article is my experience with exercise as well as the changes I see in my clients once they start moving their bodies on a regular basis. I will address some of the most common barriers to exercise as well as provide actionable steps you can take to continue moving your body or to start again if you have stopped.
Give It a Good Cry: Why Expressing Emotions Through Tears is Good for You
One of the most common phrases I hear during therapy sessions with my clients is “I am sorry for crying.” And my response is “it’s ok to cry. It’s a natural way to express our emotions and the more we hold back, the harder it is to process and express emotions.” In today’s blog post, I would like to debunk several common myths about crying and discuss the benefits of crying as a stress release tool.
The Power of Self-Compassion
Learn how embracing kindness towards yourself can significantly improve mental health outcomes for anxiety and depression.